The comment below was, to me, the most egregious example and was e-mailed to me by blog reader Missy. It was in a fitness forum [TW: weight loss talk] where there were a bunch of really supportive comments and then there was this:
anyone else think its a fake story?
i dont want to think that but shes not just a blogger
she is selling her book on her site too
she is selling dance routines, t-shirts, and dvds
she calls herself a “fatctivist”
this story just seems like a publicity stunt
i wouldve believed eggs being thrown at her
but then another car called her fat? on the same run?
and she just so happened to have a good punchline for that part
she posted a pic for proof but you cant even tell its there
why post a pic at all? like anyone wanted to see the egg shells
sounds like she went above and beyond in fabricating the story
i dont believe it
Let’s break it down, bit by bit:
anyone else think its a fake story?
i dont want to think that but shes not just a blogger
she is selling her book on her site too she is selling dance routines, t-shirts, and dvds
Yup, you’ve uncovered my nefarious plot. I’ve been secretly commissioning studies and it turns out that people are 83.27% more likely to buy books, t-shirts, and dvds from people who’ve been pelted with eggs. You totally caught me. Anyone who has an issue with me working to make a living doing work that I think is important and helps people is welcome to check out this post.
she calls herself a “fatctivist”
No. I really, really don’t. (I just did a search of all my posts just to make sure, you can take the quotation marks right off that.) I don’t know what the hell a “fatctivist” is and I think I’d need to buy a vowel to be able to pronounce it. In reality I call myself a fat activist. Easier to pronounce and I don’t have to make up an awkward word.
this story just seems like a publicity stunt
Again, I can’t believe you knew that my life goal was to be known as the fat woman who had eggs thrown at her. You must be psychic!
i wouldve believed eggs being thrown at her
but then another car called her fat? on the same run?
The second group wasn’t in a car – they were standing on a lifeguard station as I walked down the beach, regardless I wish that getting slurs yelled at me twice on the same walk was a rarity, it happens All. The. Time. A quick read of the comments on the original post will show you that this happens to fat people a lot.
and she just so happened to have a good punchline for that part
First of all, I didn’t just so happen – the egg thing was pretty fresh on my mind since walking for 9 miles is boring as hell and it was a pretty impactful experience. Also, having a witty thing to say has never been a problem for me. My problem is saying it without thinking (as in “That was witty, but I shouldn’t have said it to the Dean of my college.”) In this case it served me well.
she posted a pic for proof but you cant even tell its there
why post a pic at all? like anyone wanted to see the egg shells
sounds like she went above and beyond in fabricating the story
Sorry about the pic – my hands were shaking when I took it, what with having just had eggs thrown at me. Also, it was dark and I was using my cell phone. I actually thought about not posting it because it was so crappy, but thought that if I didn’t post some proof then people would call me a liar, which is exactly what I imagined you would have done had I not posted a pic.
i dont believe it
Fuck you.
Calling us liars is just another form of fat bullying. I think it’s important to stand up to these attempts at erasing our experiences. In my experience and from what I hear from other fat people, we people experience an incredible amount of bullying and harassment – much of it government sanctioned as part of the “War on Obesity” and supposedly for our own good. I hope that we don’t stop talking about it just because some jackass will call us liars, in fact, that’s motivation to talk about these things more.
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