Joe Bione writes:
Regarding your comment: “A word about bisexual men. Unfortunately, this is very common.”. Why is this “unfortunate”? Are you opposed to certain orientations??
Yes I am not real wild about bisexual men. I like gay men a lot more than bisexual men. I would respect a mostly-gay bisexual man I suppose.
Bisexual men are a plague. They are all through straight society, they are married to women, raising children, living in suburbia, and are found in all of the straight hangouts mingling with all the straight people more or less pretending to be straight. Most people have no idea that these guys are not straight. They are almost all living secret lives and lying to their wives and girlfriends. They are a great big huge PITA because you can’t spot them very easily, and they are all over straight places so you can’t really avoid them.
If you do not wish to mingle with gay men, just don’t go to their spaces. They have their own spaces where they like to hang out in, and there are not many straight guys there, if there are any at all. So gay men are fairly trivial to avoid if one wishes to do so.
So what it boils down is that a fair number of the men you meet in straight society are actually also batting for the other team. You make friends with them, make small chat with them and all of a sudden BAM! They reveal themselves, and it is quite a traumatic shock when they do. They are very hard to spot, as many of them act like regular straight guys. They’re all lying to their girlfriends and wives, and in general they are making these women miserable and confused.
If you don’t want gay men coming after you sexually, it is not extremely hard to avoid them. You simply avoid their spaces. Also a lot of them are pretty easy to spot due to their behaviors. Bisexual men are like spies or undercover agents in straight society. I don’t feel very good about them, to be honest.