Introducing sex toys into the bedroom can be tricky. You have egos to take into consideration. One wrong word from you and you could see your partner wilting like a parched flower. There is nothing wrong with sex-by-numbers, but a little bit of sexual experimentation is good for both of you. So how can you persuade your partner to step outside of his comfort zone and embark on a new and exciting sexual odyssey?
Broach the Subject Carefully
Women are naturally better at communication than men, but this is one time where you need to be as diplomatic as possible. Men have delicate egos. It doesn’t take a lot for them to hear you say “Let’s experiment with sex toys” and interpret that as an expression of deep dissatisfaction with his sexual technique and manhood.
Broach the Conversation
Slip the subject into a conversation when you are both relaxed in a comfortable place, preferably outside the bedroom. Tell your lover how you love and appreciate him. Showing him an article on how sex toys work might be a good starting point for the conversation.
Go Shopping Together
Shopping for sex toys together is the equivalent of foreplay and is less likely to freak him out. You can browse the shelves at your local sex shop or check out toys on EdenFantasys.com and choose a sex toy together. Just keep reminding your partner how much fun it will be for him to use it on you, or even better, watch you masturbate. Your man will be beside himself with excitement in no time at all.
Look for Couples Friendly Sex Toys
Lots of men are intimidated by a huge plastic penis that is larger than life. That’s understandable. Well, don’t worry because there are lots of non-threatening sex toys for couples you can buy that won’t make him feel emasculated. Personal massagers and pocket vibrators are fun and couple friendly, and once he is more comfortable with the idea, you can start introducing kinkier toys, such as bondage accessories or butt plugs.
Consider a Light Massage
A light massage with a vibrating body massager could be a perfect, non-intimidating start for your foreplay. Use it on your sore muscles and you will feel more relaxed and ready to go. Once a vibrator becomes a part of your love making your partner won’t object to more serious toy play.
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Over to you
How likely are you to introduce toys into your relationship or have you already? Come on folks, don’t be shy.
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