Lot of people are challenging the conventional relationship style, and it's working for them. They are building and modifying relationships and the rules as they go.
Once a couple commits to each other, sexual exclusivity is expected and assumed - for now and forever. Is that a reasonable expectation? Is monogamy willingly embraced or just endured?
What is an Open Relationship?
It is one in which two people in an ongoing relationship aren't exclusive with one another. In other words, both members are openly allowed to have other sexual and/or romantic partners. The characteristics may be differ from couple to couple. Only one partner may feel the need to have sex or romance with others. Or both might.
It all depends on the persons needs and wants. But the end of the day, an open relationship still places priority on the partner or spouse you've primarily committed to.
People are of the belief : " Why shouldn't we be able to have sex with others in order to avoid monotony, and still have a satisfying, emotionally close relationship with one partner?"
Rules for Open Relationships
Why are rules needed if it is open? Well, rules gain more importance, especially if it is going to be open. In monogamous relationships, the rules are very clear. You are off limits to anyone other than your partner.
Rule #1
Define your priority first. Is this going to be your primary relationship? If it is so how much time are you going to spend with secondary partners?
If you agree that this is going to be your main relationship then also make it a point not to spend too much time with secondary partners. There should be nothign beyond friendship with the secondaries and if it is become more of that, then recconsider or cut it off.
Rule #2
Honesty. Always. But that's something we've never really had to make an effort for.
Rule #3
Its a cliche to say that communication is the key. Let your partner know when and who you will be seeing. Transparency brings a whole new level to th erelationship. There would be no room for second guessing or insecurity creeping in if both of you know the details of the each other's activities.
Rule #4
If you have common friend the absoulte rule is not to date them. This can bring an unease as you know them personally.
Rule #5
Don't over date. One lover a week is good enough.
Write a Bio On Open Relationship Dating Apps
Be as transparent as possible in your dating profile.
Be clear about what you mean by Open. Is it just sex you are looking for or you may be polyamorous and need to take on emotional connection.
The idea behind having an open relationship is that you can't expect to have all your needs met by one person. Some partners have rules around their open relationship that they can have sex with other people, however, no emotional connection or relationship is allowed. So put that in as clear words as possible.
Dating Apps For Open Relationships - The Best Of The Lot
Dating is hard enough for monogamous people, and it only gets harder for the non-monogamous individual. Popular dating sites don't cater to you, and it's nearly impossible to identify another non-monogamous individual just by looking at them.
So whether you're considering an open or a polyamorous relationship, here are a few apps that we picked out for you.
PolyFinda
Specifically designed for the polyamorous community. If you're part of a couple or a "polycule" (a group relationship) you can link to your partner's or partners' profiles.
The drawback? Not many people are on it, and reviews note it's often glitchy.
It a great app for this niche and is getting better and easier to use with the updates.
#Open
Explicitly for open relationships and hosts an inclusive, sex positive community that's completely void of judgement.
Users can join solo or as a couple, offering 24 gender identities and 23 orientations.
Users are encouraged to personalize their profiles with hashtags that express your sex and relationship preferences and boundaries.
A supporter of the LGBTQ community, #Open also asks for preferred pronouns, which is a simple, rare and appreciated feature on any app, website or document.
With a Tinder-like matching system, #Open also lets users search or browse profiles and hosts group chats for larger discussions.
The app is giving one dollar to Planned Parenthood for each new profile up to $69,000. All the more reason to hop on to this app.
Ashley Madison
Most notorious non-traditional dating site.
Helping individuals who are married or in committed relationships seek affairs.
Profiles also feature a member feedback area where others have previously ranked the profile, which helps in identifying who you might want to contact and who isn't worth your time.
Humans are complex being and there is no one rule or rules that define all. However different we may be from each other we have the right to live our lives the way we want to . hence " Live and let live " should be the mantra.
