Not older than two posts before, I wrote about the measures that women can take to stop assault on them. If you all look at the scenario behind such crimes, women and men equally if they come together, then it is very much possible to completely eradicate this deadly disease once and for all from our society.
The growing graph of sexual assault against women is a valid point to assume that the crime is becoming rife as each day passes. the simple rape case scenario has now turned into more gruesome gang rape cases. What all we have done to stop the crime instead of just blaming the government or at the maximum blaming the victim or the accused. The streets were filled with protesters performing a candle lit march for getting the justice for the victim. For whom?
What all we were doing when the small spark named rape ignited? If we would have taken action at that time, these incidents might not have even existed. Why can't we understand a simple thing that a small spark is enough to burn down an entire jungle! And alas this is already happening now.
Well, even now, if we come together we can eliminate these black spots on society once and for all. Below I cite some measures(Absolutely my opinion, Yours are welcome) that men can/should take to curb these crimes forever:
#1. Widen your thinking horizons!
That's right. Although we have progressed in the modern era, but the thinking somewhere still lacks far behind in the past. What the assault has an impact on a woman can't be described unless one feels it. Instead of looking at a woman as a piece, should look at her as a human being. Moreover, one thing they should keep in mind that, they also have a life, a dignity, a respect like men do! Many people (including some women) still either sell their children or force the girls into flesh trade. Many girls are killed before even coming into this world. I want to ask these people, if a woman would not have been there, how would you have been born?
#2. Weigh your priorities!
Consider a case when a man is deeply hurt or ditched by a woman. In return he plans to assault her in front of public. Now just think about it. If you do the same to her what difference will be left between you and her? It's better to move on with an aim to rise higher in life achieving something so that she will regret all her life for ditching you rather than get yourself committed for such a heinous crime!
#3. Make a dignified boundary!
Now here comes a case that might seem confusing. There are woman out there willing to go to any extent to get what they desire luring men into committing such crimes. Sometimes there are fake cases also which ruins the life of the man acquitted. Which if proved right, may lead him to commit even if he haven't done it! So a dignified respectful boundary should be framed across yourself so that these problems never arise.
#4. You can't get away!
Many think that if they commit the crime and run away or they will be able to get free after a certain time, then I am sorry to say that you are wrong. If you will even get away after a few years of imprisonment and a hefty fine, then at your end time, when you will say to your inner self?
The most important factor is to change the thinking towards women. If they are willing to do wrong (at times they are willing to give up their bodies for things they desire) then also it is his eye of caution to prevent himself from being viewed as a lust slave human being.
That's all from my side. Remember, you cannot clap from one hand. there is always a motive or reason behind everything. The crux is to find that reason in order to remove this crime. Just the need of the hour is to make strict rules and to follow them! More suggestions, if any of them I have missed out are welcome. Take care.
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