This is probably the first spring in years where I don't have a wedding lined up for the summer. Well, I do have one coming at end of summer and possibly another mid-June, but at this very moment, I have no wedding invitations in my hands. And yet, I've found myself casually window shopping online for the perfect wedding guest dress. So, in the effort that I can be of some service to some of you out there, here are the wedding guest dresses that have caught my eye.
Garden Wedding
Lace cut-out back dress by MSGM
Think wearing a red dress to a wedding has been done before? Sure, you can casually leave the room if 'Lady in Red' starts to play, but otherwise, wearing a red dress for a cocktail style garden wedding is as classic as classic gets. This lace cut-out back dress by MSGM is understated and elegant. A simple pair of single sole pumps are quite possibly the only accessory needed.
Chapel-to-Reception Weddings
Going with a classic cocktail dress for those all day chapel to reception type weddings that we've all been to. With these weddings, you usually need to find a place to pass the time in between the wedding and the reception so it's best to choose a dress that's stylish and comfortable. This strapless dress by Catherine Malandrino is made of a stretch-jersey material which is likely lightweight and won't wrinkle easily after sitting in it all day.
Cocktail Wedding
Generally, I wouldn't recommend wearing sequins to a wedding but this dress would be perfect for an evening cocktail wedding in a trendy loft location. Evening cocktail weddings are becoming much more common these days which means you are ok to wear an evening dress to the ceremony. Generally though, unless the ceremony is later than 7pm followed immediately by the cocktail party and reception, this shouldn't be an option. Sure, this Burberry dress may be a little out of reach price-wise, but it's spectacular.
Some additional tips for wedding guest attire:
- More is more. Be mindful of the length on your dress - avoid mini-skirts. Be sure to bring along a nice tailored cropped jacket if you're going with a strapless dress.
- Follow the dress code if there is one. If the invitation says to wear all white, or all blue, or all polka dots, you do it. If the invitation says 'black tie optional' then cocktail attire is ok so long as it errs on the side of formal. After all, it's the couple's day and if they want you to wear all white with purple stripes, then so be it.
- Mind your toes! You've done, I've done it. But try to avoid bringing flip flops for the dance floor. Instead, tuck away a pair of those Dr. Scholl's roll-up flats into your clutch for dancing into the wee hours of the evening.
- Do not wear a white dress (or ivory or cream for that matter) under any circumstances.
Enjoy the wedding guest dress shopping process!
