We are very grateful to Tracey Cox for sharing her ‘5 things’ with us.
Instigate sex
Nothing makes you feel more powerful than being the one who desires. It also lets your partner know you enjoy it as much as they do.
Try something new every single time you have sex from now on
It’s easier to do than you think: simply change the time of day you do it, which room you do it in, what you’re wearing, what position you choose, who initiates, what the focus of the session is etc.
Start a ‘sex jar’
Each write down 10 things you’d like to try. Rip into separate points, fold and put all of them into a jar. Pick out one a week to try. Repeat when it’s empty.
Stop thinking everyone else’s relationship and sex life is better than yours
There is no such thing as an ideal relationship. Everyone compromises. You let go of the tooth fairy, now let go of this.
Be nice
We wouldn’t dream of treating our friends the way we treat our partners. Offer them the same respect!
For more advice please visit Tracey’s www.traceycox.com.
You can also connect with Tracey via Twitter.
