Today a frustrated and desperate mom asks for your help. What do you do when your faced with making a choice over your partner and your own child?
My Partner Is Leaving Me Because Of My Son; Please Help Me
My eleven year old son has witnessed all sorts of violence against me. I split up with my new partner today because of his behavior the real reason for him telling me is leaving is he cant get on with my eleven year old. He loves me so much, but if my son carries on he will leave me.
I am pregnant and this relationship was the one, the one man that loved me like no other and I love him too. I have finally had some happiness and some stability for me and my kids. I don’t know what to do?
I am 13 weeks pregnant with my fifth kid. I can’t afford to be a single mom of five and I don’t want to be.
I love this man so much but love my son too. I cannot choose and I don’t want to lose either.
I just want them to get on and for my son to stop being so violent to his siblings. He shouts constantly and last night gave my 6 year old a nosebleed.
I know he should not be behaving this way to his brothers and sisters. I have done parenting courses and don’t know what to do, nothing works.
Social Service are involved due to the past history of domestic violence which is no longer an issue.
I love my fiancée and don’t want to lose him over this. I am sure things will get better if we persevere, they have to. I just wish they would get along.
There is a CHAMS referral I am waiting for. The other kids are miserable when my eleven year old is around too. He hits and shouts all the time. Even his four year old sister, he is twelve in two weeks or so.
My kids will always come first but I don’t want a fifth child to lose their daddy too and the other kids love my new partner to pieces.
Can you help me?
