We had a bar-b-que with the girls’ Junior troop yesterday.
Before we all had fun, we had a badge ceremony. At the ceremony I made a mental
note to find the missing Daisy and Brownies badges.
For a long time now we were unable to locate one Daisy vest
and one Brownie sash. We found the other two hanging on the blond twin’s side
of the room. We stripped the brunette twin’s room down to nothing searching for
these things. We went through the basement and the living room.
While we were searching for the missing pieces I kept the
badges in plastic baggies. We had a group from Daisies and a group from Brownies.
With the Juniors ceremony, I now had three baggies. It was time to find the
missing vestments.
We went through the brunette twin’s room again before I told
the girls they would have to find these things tomorrow. There would be no fun
until these things were found. They went to bed, but I kept searching. Daddy
and I sat down to watch TV. I sorted all the badges on the credenza and
organized the project. Now I really needed the missing pieces. I kept getting
up to look here or there. I knew these things were in our house. It was driving
me crazy that I couldn’t find them. I finally gave up about 11:00 p.m. I went
to bed thinking about the vest and sash.
In the middle of the night I sat up in bed with a startling
realization. We weren’t looking for the brunette twin’s vest and sash. We were
looking for the blond twin’s vest and sash. The blond twin wouldn’t leave her
vest and sash hanging on a hook underneath other things. Hers would be put away
neatly in a drawer or on a shelf.
I went into their room and turned on her closet light.
Quietly I opened her closet door and reached on her shelf. There, folded neatly,
were her vest and sash. I took them downstairs, put them with the rest of the
project and went to bed.
The first thing I did when the girls woke up Monday morning
was apologize to the brunette twin. I was so annoyed that she couldn’t find her
vest and sash. She was so relieved that we found the missing pieces. She was so
tired of searching for the items. She also felt vindicated that these were in
her sister’s room. She kept saying she didn’t have them and she was right.
Why didn’t we find these earlier? I think there are a couple
of things I did wrong. First, I thought I was looking for the brunette twin’s
items. I was in the wrong place all the time. Second, even when we looked in the
blond twin’s closet, we didn’t do a thorough search. Daddy hangs his “out of
season” shirts in the blond twin’s closet. We have two bars so his hang on top
and her stuff is on the bottom where she can reach it every day. We never moved
Daddy’s shirts to see what was on the shelf.
Third, let’s be honest here, I wasn’t very focused on putting the badges
on the vest/sashes. I’d think about it, forget about it, see a badge, and think
about it again. If I had really spent some time on this then the badges would
be in their proper places.
Now that we have everything, I’ve been busy sewing these
things on and reminiscing. The girls have had a lot of fun so far with Girl
Scouts. They are in their final years when Girl Scouts is more about community
service and earning their Bronze, Silver and Gold Awards. It’s fun to look back
at what they did as Daisies and Brownies and wonder what kind of impact they
can make and Juniors and Cadettes.