This was formerly part of another post, but I cut it out and made it into its own post as I think it sits well as a single topic.
If you like women more than you like men, you might just end up being around women most of the time. Don’t worry about not being able to hang around men if this happens because a lot of guys will notice you hanging around chicks all the time, and all of a sudden you will have a lot of brand new male friends and a lot of old friends will come back. They will want to hang around with you to hopefully get in on some of the action.
Now say you are that sort of guy, what might you life be like?
You start making a lot of female friends and end up being around females most of the time, which, assuming you don’t hate females, is pretty fun.
Lots of guys hate being friendzoned, but if you already have relationships going on, you shouldn’t care about being friendzoned. Even if you aren’t dating, just lie and say you are, and the friendzoning should go well.
A lot of guys want to screw every woman they know, even the ones who just want to be friends. This is a typical male caveman mindset, and most women hate it.
So you just end up being friends with women and hang around with them all the time. As I said, friendzoning is irrelevant as long as you are dating too, in which case, friendzoning should not be frustrating, insulting or enraging.
Pretty soon your new female friends will start trying to fix you up with their friends. In this case, what they are really doing is fucking you by proxy. Your female friend wants to fuck you on some level, but something is preventing her, so she fixes you up with her friends and then hears the gruesome details, and this way she gets to fuck you by proxy and still not actually do it physically with you which is something she is trying to avoid.
I used used to have girls who were my friends, and I would go over there and hang out, and they would fix me up with their girlfriends. In some cases, I got to be friends with their sisters too. It was often a younger sister. The younger sister would see the older sister fixing her friends up with me, and she would get jealous and then pull me aside and try to fix me up with her friends. Why? Because females are ridiculously competitive.
How to Act around Your Female Friends
With your female friends, you just leave them alone. Don’t mess with them. A lot of them will be married or with guys anyway. Just be really cool and hang back and be friendly and don’t try anything sexual other than looking at them and fantasizing and maybe an occasional comment. “Leave yourself open,” and they might start grabbing you and whatnot. Arrange “friend dates” with your female friends like tennis dates or study dates. It’s not uncommon for these “friend dates” to take a sexual turn towards the end of the date.
Also if you just hang back, respect your female friend and do nothing but devour her with your eyes while “leaving yourself open,” after a few months, a lot of your female friends will start trying to seduce you. Why? I have no idea. I think women are used to guys who just try to grab them all the time and can’t be friends with them, and they are intrigued that you keep your hands off of them, while at the same time you are a Hottie with Game. For some reason, after a while of this, a lot of them will try to seduce you.
The thing is most guys freak out at being friendzoned. Most men try to screw any female who gets significantly close to them, with the end result being that most men are simply not capable of being friends with a female. So women are intrigued by Mr. Hottie with Game dude who for some mysterious reason isn’t trying to fuck her. You’re not desperate either, as she knows about your dating exploits.
That you already have women you are involved with signifies what the Gamers call “abundance mentality.” By the same token, the fact that you are not grabbing at your female friend all the time like most idiots can also signify “abundance mentality.” Your female friend will think you are not desperate, and you are sexually satisfied enough to not try to fuck her, just because you can afford to as you already have your hands full. Also the fact that you are not trying to screw her all the time is intriguing, and it sets off their curiosity. And after a while, a lot of them get frustrated and start grabbing you, propositioning you either overtly or covertly or start making all sorts of sneaky and seductive moves with hidden motives.
I think women find “abundance mentality” very intriguing because most guys come across desperate, like they haven’t been laid in years, and they are moving Heaven and Earth in a desperate attempt to fuck any chick at any cost. Women are somewhat disgusted at such guys, as they are coming across as desperate, and that’s lame and Beta. But this satisfied Hottie Cool Guy with Game who is respectful enough to keep his hands off her and is not even 1% desperate? Now that is a very intriguing fellow, and it spikes her curiosity, and a seduction attempt may well follow.
A lot of females get frustrated if you don’t try to screw them pretty fast.
I have been on dates where girls said, “So, are you going to kiss me or not?” or “Are you going to fuck me or what!?”
