Dating a hot woman is every man’s dream. However, before they get to this stage, they have to pass through many obstacles first. One of the biggest obstacles is to approach the woman he likes.
Men choose attractive girls most of the time. However, the more attractive the woman is, the higher is the competition between men who are interested in dating her. Men fear approaching hot and attractive girls, because they know that rejection will definitely be high.
Some Interesting Facts
Trivia: Do you know that the population of women is far greater than the actual number of men? This is one reason why men have larger options for choosing the best girl to date, and have a steady relationship with.
Anyway, in order to approach a woman appropriately, men need to be courageous and a little bit assertive. Confidence is actually the key, but being confident is not always enough to succeed. Most of the time, when men approach women with overflowing confidence, women will easily reject them. Keep in mind that too much confidence is a major turn off, so balancing your self-confidence is something that you need to work on.
Below are some more information on how to approach women appropriately.
Approaching Tips
VIRTUAL DATING: Nowadays, “online dating sites” are everywhere. Normally, men visit online dating sites to find hot women for a good time and a possible relationship in the long run. Most men normally prefer online dating sites because the fear of being rejected is a bit low. Not to mention, men can easily ask a girl anything (any topic under the sun) without worrying, because men can easily move to another chat partner, if he is rejected by the first girl. However, at the end of the day, you still have to face the fact that you have to meet the girl personally and approach them like the old days, once you have established a more serious connection with one another already.
FEAR: Do you have the fear of rejection or being embarrassed in public? You have to be certain or aware about your fear. Fear is not something you can leave in your house or put it inside a bottle to lock it down. You have to face it and fight it. By realizing your fears, you are already doing the first step of overcoming it, and taking over the situation. You will be able to think clearly and positively if you know how to deal with your fears. Rejection will just be second in your mind. You will not think of humiliation and embarrassment anymore. When approaching a woman, thinking that no one else is looking at you, will surely help you build the confidence. Ignore the people around, and just stay focused on your goal, which is – approaching the woman that you like.
BEING EXPERT: When you do something over and over again, you will forget about the challenges and obstacles that you are likely to face along the process of what you are doing. Same logic applies when approaching women. For instance, if you practice approaching women or even other people around you with the right level of self confidence, you will see that you will not have a hard time doing it, when time calls you to approach the woman that catches your interest.
Further Reading On The Topic
- Top 10: Essential Tips For Approaching Women – AskMen
- Approaching Women – Part I – AskMen
- How To Approach A Woman, According To Women On Reddit
