There are so many wrong techniques that men do, when approaching a girl. One of the mistakes commonly used is by using pick-up lines they watch and hear from movies, or in radio, in order to get a girl’s attention. The thing is – in movies, this thing works, but in real life, this kind of strategy won’t. As a matter of fact, this strategy will not help you get the girl that you like, and if you continue with this style, you are likely to be single for the rest of your life.
You have to consider so many things when approaching a woman. You may refer to the following guides below, which will talk about the best strategies that you should do, when approaching a girl.
Here Are The Recommendations
DO NOT BE INTIMIDATED: Most single and attractive women go out in groups. If you have problems approaching a woman in front of her peers, then this is something you should work on. One tip is to go out with your own group of friends. That way, you and your group of friends can approach the girls, so that approaching the girl that you like will be less stressful for you.
DO NOT TRUST PICK UP LINES: Nowadays, pick up lines are commonly used by men. Using pick up lines is a big mistake when starting a conversation. The reason behind this is – pick up lines are often heard on the radio, or in the television, so most probably, most women have heard every pick up lines already. Instead of starting your conversation with a pick up line, try the traditional way of approaching a girl and be casual by saying “Hey, how are you doing?”. From that very simple question, a smooth and light conversation may start, and hopefully take you to a deeper “getting to know you phase”.
WOMEN ARE NOT SHALLOW MINDED: It is true that physical attraction initiates a good conversation, but one thing men should know, is that most girls do not focus on looks alone. Actually, women find super good looking men intimidating. Also, women sees guys with a boy-next-door type to be happy go lucky people, which equates to people who are not capable of handling a relationship. Women like funny and intelligent men, and men with these characteristics often hits the top of the list. They find funny men attractive – That’s for sure!
BUYING HER A DRINK IS NOT A GOOD START: Do not start everything by getting the girl a drink. It is not actually necessary, but some men do it. Women dislike this type of approach, because it gives them the impression of you being boastful. As much as possible, approach her first, and if you are able to build up a conversation with her already, you may ask her to buy something to drink.
LISTEN: Listen to what she is saying during the conversation. Showing her that you are interested with her story makes her feel special. However, make sure that when she talks, you are looking straight to her eyes.
Further Reading And Sources:
- How to Meet Women Without Really Trying – An Example
- Where To Meet Women So You Won’t Be Forever Alone
- 5 Ways to Meet Women – wikiHow
