Asking a girl to go out on a date with you is your first step to get to her closer, so that the both of you will get to know each other better. This is crucial for most men because this date will be her deciding point; to have more date nights with you or not. Do not be discouraged if a girl rejects you when asking for a second date. After all, everyone experiences being rejected. However, if you want to lessen the possibility of rejection, below are some pointers to keep in mind.
Those Critical Mistakes
SHE CAN READ YOUR BODY LANGUAGE: Women like men who are confident about himself. Not having the right level of confidence is often the reason why men are rejected. Women do not like men who are over confident and who comes too fast, but women do not also like men who are too shy and timid. Women can easily read your mind through your body language. Let your body movement show full confidence and ease, to give her the impression that you are not just masking your confidence through words.
WRONG ANTICIPATION: Men are strong and firm in nature, and showing this off, is one of the outlets to show his masculinity. In all honesty, doing this is a total turn off. Modern women do not want to be dominated, because they want to be treated equally. Therefore, seeing too much power from you will just lead to rejection. Men should always know when to show his strength in front of a girl. Showing too much can be boastful, and this is a big NO.
COMMITMENT: Most women want her man to be committed to her. Just like in dating, you have to show the girl that you are very much willing to do everything to meet her likes. You have to pay attention to her all the time. Men are rejected because they lack the ability to show the girl how important she is, and how he’d like to spend his time with her always.
NEGATIVE ATTITUDE: Men who think of rejection before approaching the girl will have a hard time building self-confidence. You actually have to drop the negative attitude, and stay positive in thinking that everything will go as planned. You have to be optimistic at the very beginning, because this will definitely reflect it in your actions. Lack of confidence will show in your every move. You have to work on this, because lack of self confidence will surely lead to rejection.
BEING UNREALISTIC: Being sweet, nice, and caring is ideal to get a girl to like you. She also wants to be showered with sweet promises, but you have to be careful on not giving her promises that are too good to be true. You don’t have to promise her the sun, moon, and stars, because this will just lead to rejection. There’s nothing wrong in telling her the things that you can give her, and the things that you cannot at the time. She’ll value your honesty, and she’ll find it sweet as well.
Further Reading:
- First Date Tips: The Art Of Great Conversation
- 3 STRONG Pillars Of An Awesome Marriage
- Master The Art of Communication To Build THAT Perfect Relationship
